why, Why, WHY DOES THIS ALWAYS HAPPEN??!! ~ by GirLOVEStacos2

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... Honestly I think the best thing you can do is respect his parents wishes. If you keep in their good books, the rules surrounding your relationship will probably relax over time and you'll be allowed to kiss him (yay!) And try to remember that in four years, you'll probably be looking back on this and thinking 'oh, it wasn't such a big deal after all', even though now it seems like the worst thing ever. And also remember that you are definitely not the only one that this is happening to:)

10 years ago

rose-renee

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And you're probably thinking, what's the point of having a bf if you can't kiss him, right?? Well, you can still spend lots of time together, hug, hold hands, which while it sounds very g-rated is still really nice. And personally I think the emotional connection is the most important thing. I also think part of what Giggle said makes a lot of sense, I'm sure his mum is scared him growing up, but honestly, I don't think she's being over-protective at all. cont->

10 years ago

rose-renee

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...But at the same time though, I kinda wish I had been allowed to learn from my mistakes. (Sorry for that rant, I promise I'm going somewhere with this). So anyway, you are both 13 right? So you literally are only just teenagers. Like Banshee said, that is probably a little bit too young to be kissing people romantically. I won't tell you it's too young to have a boyfriend, because if your parents say it is okay, then I guess its ok because they know you best. cont->

10 years ago

SailorDione

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Take this advice from a 19 year old who has never had a boyfriend in her life but has seen many failed relationships because her friends don't know how to choose good guys or girls: dating really gets in the way of everything. That is all -Em

10 years ago

rose-renee

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If it makes you feel any better, this used to happen to me ALL THE TIME when I was at school, except it wasn't coming from my bf's mum, it was coming from my mum, because I wasn't even allowed to have a bf! My parents were all like 'You're too young to date, you have to wait until you're 15'. THE HORROR! But now, looking back, I realise it wasn't so bad, because most of the people I liked turned out to be complete jerks (not saying that your bf is jerk tho, I'm sure he's really sweet:) ). cont->

10 years ago

BansheeCupcake

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My dear, you are both in 7th correct? In many people's eyes, especially parents, that is a little too young to be kissing anyone romantically. You're only just starting to become teenagers and I'm sure you all are trying to figure out what you want romantically, but please understand where his mother is coming from. Don't get too stressed about it! And, trust me, you don't really want to be dating until you reach high school and are much more mature. Take this as advice from a high school senior

10 years ago

GiggleClownHaHa

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I'm sorry! That really does suck! I know that feeling of just wanting to crawl in a hole and scream. I think she is just a bit scared of her baby growing up and being over protected. Don't let her bring you down. You are a wonderful young lady for him and I don't think she sees that yet. But I believe she will soon. :)

10 years ago